Faced with the topic of internet love , there are many different ideas.
In my opinion, love is unforeseen.
Real lover can appear in any circumance.

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原帖由 丫丫爱军绿 于 2008-1-6 20:18 发表
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
在遇到真命天子之前，上天也许会安排我们先错误地遇到其他一些人；所以当我们终于遇见心仪的人时，我们便能够心存感激。

if you miss the best one who you have ever thought he/she is the wrong one
but you can't find a better one.
can you be grateful?
do you want to say that it 's the God's joke...
whether on-line love or realistic one, I wish all of you find the true one.

I  like  the love  on the line     
becouse  you can do what  you  want  to  do,  dream what   you  want   to dream , be  what  you  want  to be  

网络是不可回避的，不可能因为网络而拒绝网络，可能希望没网络的人远远少于希望有网络的人，所以自控最重要．

Internet-love is the same as realistic relationship
the exclusive difference between them is medium. You can meet love via net, then known each other by telephone ,or mail., and you find out there are common interests , finally you get along with each other in the realistic relationship…
In the same way, you meet love on a sodality, then leave the phone number with each other, and then repeating process starts coming on as on_line love. If you don’t get along with each other, parting should be inevitable.
Someone insist that beguilement exists in the net, while someone think that cheat also exists in the realistic relationship.
So, honesty, consideration and trustful are the elements of a happy love, whether on-line love or realistic relationship.
网恋其实和现实的爱情是一样的，他们之间唯一的不同是媒介。
你可以通过网络，然后通过电话或邮件彼此了解对方，你发现了你们之间有很多共同点，最后你们在现实生活中相处也很好…
同样，你可能在一场聚会中遇见了你的爱情，然后互留了电话，接着的步骤与网恋同样开始上演，如果你们不能相处很好，那么分手是必然的。
有人坚持网恋存在着欺骗，而也有人认为欺骗同样存在与现实的爱情中。
所以，要想有一段幸福的爱情，诚实、体谅和信任是最基本的，不管是网络还是现实恋爱也好。

As a two edged weapon,it`s a matter of how to harness or escape from it.

No matter on-line love or relationship in live life, every body is entitled to the right to seek  for his own lover. But please keep in mind that we must take responsibility not only for ourselves, but also for our loving partners.  
So, it is strongly suggested that keeping far-distance love between lovers in different cities is very difficult, as we have to take into account that whether we can work or live together in the same city in future.
Should both of the lovers on-live be able to deal with all the difficulties and pull off to do a job in the same city,  it is also available to have a try.

With  Internet  thriving  in  recent  years, the number  of  Intenet  users  including  college  students  is  rising  constantly. In  such  a  case, the  so-called  on-line  love  has  been  finding  its  way  among  students.
     To  my  knowledge, the  main  reason  why  that  phenomenon  occurs  in  the  quiet  campus  is  that  the  virtual
love  can  effectively  meet  the  youths'  heart  desire , meanwhile,  the  home-sick  feeling  might  as  well  be  relieved.
     Frankly  speaking,  I  don't  object  to  the  on-line  love  completely.  As  for  the  college  students  who  have  been
so  far  away  from  thei  familiar  hometowns,  it  may  comes  to  a  good  end  if  they  really  find  ther  ture  love  by
Internet.
    However,  more  experiences  warn  us  that  it's  not   a  wise   or  even  dangerous  to  contact  with  a total  stranger  on  line. Despite  the  bad  mood  that  sometimes  haunts  you,  the  virtual  love  is  not  the  sole  way
to  solute  problems,  something  else  works  likewise, such  as  watching  movies, doing  sports, even  sleeping.
    Essential  to  say,  parents  also  yearn  for  you,  worry  about  you,  care  about  you  at  any  minute   when  staying
at  home.  Thus,  it's  selfish  to  just  think  of  yourself.
    The  cardinal  task  at  present  is  to  focus  on  studying. The  true  company  of  your  lifetime  is  at  somewhere  else,perhaps  waiting  for  you. So  why  don't  you  calm  down  and  return  to  the real  world ,awaiting  the  approach  of  Cupid  one  day?

我是一个网虫，从高一开始就接触网络到现在，也就是最开始的QQ。
我的朋友很多，各种各样的，全国各地的，包括海外的朋友，他们当中有网恋成功的，失败的当然居多，也有一些人只是把网络当成一个游乐场，这就要看自己接触的这些人是怎么对待这个网络的。
网络是我的第2生命，没有网络我很难苟活，几乎我除了睡觉就是上网，那么我的感情自然也都真实的流露在网络上，一直我都认为网络上有真诚在的，至少我付出了真诚，我应该也会得到真诚的回报。对于爱情来讲，我也相信。
当然，我被人耍过，被骗过，被抛弃过，我也离开过别人，这期间的复杂心酸都是过去，受了那么多次的打击之后，我依旧相信网恋，只是这个恋的程度和长短会主观去控制，对方要是玩玩而已的话，我会很快结束，对方要是跟我一样认真的话，那就是一段真实的现实感情了。

（我什么时候才可以用英语很熟练的把上面翻译出来哇 ）

I think it was impossible.It was not true.But we live in the real world,so we should  realize it correcttly.