有一项关于“大学生网恋”的调查显示，在大学生群体中，网恋正成为一种比较普遍的交往与恋爱方式。
About 90 percent of Chinese university students regard "Internet love" as an effective way to satisfy their emotional needs, according to a survey by Northeast China Normal University.
The survey found that 18.4 percent of respondents admitted they had at least one Internet lover. In addition, 38 percent revealed people around them were having on-line love affairs.
东北师范大学一项调查显示，近九成大学生认为，网恋是满足情感需要的一种方式，18.4%的人选择将网恋带入现实生活。“近四成大学生报告自己周围的同学有网恋现象。



但对于网恋，不同的人对它的看法也是不同的。有人避而远之，惟恐不小心掉进网恋的陷阱让自己受到伤害；也有人觉得无所谓，认为如果遇到自己喜欢的人，在网上来场精神恋爱也不错；还有人认为网恋虽然美丽浪漫，却总是太虚无飘渺，美丽过后太痛苦，想尝试却又害怕。 网络让陌生的人相识，就算天各一方，也因为网络的神奇而变得没有距离感，而我们的世界也因为有了网络而变得更精彩生动。几乎所有上网的人都会概叹着网络的虚幻缥缈，几乎所有的人都曾抗拒网恋的魅惑，但多数的人却又经不起这样的诱惑，被网络的神秘所吸引，而人的情感也会随着对它的依恋而牵动。



网恋简单表达为“internet love”或者为“on-line love”，那么，相对于网恋这样虚拟的恋爱关系“virtual love”，真实的恋爱关系则表达为“realistic relationship”。



对于这个问题,大家又是怎么看待的?

那么今天的论题来了：你"弹"我"弹"☆【今日Topic】网恋—你能接受吗？



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上期你"弹"我"弹"☆【今日Topic】论题，有兴趣的朋友进入参与：一个女大学生和两元的故事！！

　

很喜欢这首歌，让人听了有一种想跳跃的感觉，感谢“恒星人”terry的推荐！本人超喜欢！不知大家是否也如我一样喜欢呢？呵呵！Thank you !

　
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[ 本帖最后由 我爱英语 于 2008-2-26 20:13 编辑 ]

感情的事情很难说的啊.....在对的时间遇到对的人都应该珍惜吧

As the widely spread of the internet,we have to face it seriously.No matter how others think about internet love,I'll support free love.Parents are always afraid  that we fall in love with the strangers we met on the internet.I think they should not be afraid too much.We have our ideas ,and we can make out what is right or wrong.
If you belived in your intution,just do it.To me, friends are more important on the internet. : )

对我来说,internet love 是不可能的.虽然我交了很多网友,但只是互相学习,帮助.除非是有见面,在现实中接触才有可能发展,不然,就只是朋友,不可能成为恋人了.大家又是怎么看这个问题的啊.哈哈.

Actually my own romance is realized  via internet , but i wil try to give an objective opinion.
that is :    Love is a gift of life, while internet is just a tool to increase the chances for ordinary person to know more love candidates.

True ,  i am older than most of you here , so i would  not bother too much time to share my experiences, cause all you guys are more  handy in the net,
all i want to say is ,  
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
在遇到真命天子之前，上天也许会安排我们先错误地遇到其他一些人；所以当我们终于遇见心仪的人时，我们便能够心存感激。
SO,
Don’t try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。

i have lots of friends involved in the on-line love.
some of them are successful to change virtual relationship into realistic. And they are as happy as the normal teenagers.
So I don't think it really matters of loving on line or in real life.
Internet love is a way of love.
Then what is the point to treat it as a trap or like a drug, to keep away from it.
That's ridiculous!

It's popular in big city .
Sometime it provide another way to know someone  you can't know in life .

There are a great movie about on-line love .you'v get a mail

[ 本帖最后由 met31 于 2008-1-6 22:18 编辑 ]

I have many friends, of couse some are on the internet. For me, an middleaged man, I have enough strengh to control myself. Sometimes I really have some special feeling about some special person. It is just like you and her have so much in common and so much shared interest that you have every reason to begin a love. But we should know what we have is what really matters. For our adults, with the same routine, maybe we need some change. But to college students, i think it is a waste of time and energy when you could have plenty of opportunities to make friends face to face.

in my  opinion; i think  internet-love is  not   ture~but  is  very   beateful.i have once  this  expeirence,but  in  end  fiad~so many  people  want  make  boy/girl  friend's  idea is good``but   rember  that  must'nt    lose  yourself`

Your opinion is profound.Thanks a lot telling us how to be grateful through your experience.
If it's ture "God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful." I'll try to meet those wrong people,maybe one of them is the one I am finding.Sometimes we need to create opportunity for ourselves.