I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note--torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one.
我可以宽恕，但我不能忘记。这只是“我不宽恕”的另一种说法罢了。宽恕就得想取消一张票据一样——撕成两半，烧掉，再也无法向任何人出示。 Henry Ward Beecher (亨利·沃德·比奇)