Nguyen, the U.C.L.A. sophomore, said that in her Vietnamese-American family in Southern California, all the talk was of doing well enough in high school to get to college and not about the challenges college itself might present. Epstein, the College of Charleston senior, said that his popularity in high school in the suburbs of New York City perhaps distracted him from any awareness that ¡°I was going 700 miles away and being dropped in a place of 10,000 people and wasn¡¯t going to know anybody.¡± What followed, he added, was ¡°a long battle with anxiety and depression.¡±
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