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你"弹"我"弹"☆【今日Topic】网恋—你能接受吗？ 20080106

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:hxen4: 有[color=#000000]一项关于“大学生网恋”的调查显示，在大学生群体中，网恋正成为一种比较普遍的交往与恋爱方式。
About 90 percent of Chinese university students regard "[b][color=olive]Internet love[/color][/b]" as an effective way to satisfy their emotional needs, according to a survey by Northeast China Normal University.
The survey found that 18.4 percent of respondents admitted they had at least one Internet lover. In addition, 38 percent revealed people around them were having on-line love affairs.
东北师范大学一项调查显示，近九成大学生认为，网恋是满足情感需要的一种方式，18.4%的人选择将网恋带入现实生活。“近四成大学生报告自己周围的同学有网恋现象。

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[color=teal]:hxen4: 但对于网恋，不同的人对它的看法也是不同的。有人避而远之，惟恐不小心掉进网恋的陷阱让自己受到伤害；也有人觉得无所谓，认为如果遇到自己喜欢的人，在网上来场精神恋爱也不错；还有人认为网恋虽然美丽浪漫，却总是太虚无飘渺，美丽过后太痛苦，想尝试却又害怕。 网络让陌生的人相识，就算天各一方，也因为网络的神奇而变得没有距离感，而我们的世界也因为有了网络而变得更精彩生动。几乎所有上网的人都会概叹着网络的虚幻缥缈，几乎所有的人都曾抗拒网恋的魅惑，但多数的人却又经不起这样的诱惑，被网络的神秘所吸引，而人的情感也会随着对它的依恋而牵动。

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[color=#000000][color=darkorange]网恋简单表达为“internet love”或者为“on-line love”，那么，相对于网恋这样虚拟的恋爱关系“virtual love”，真实的恋爱关系则表达为“realistic relationship”。[/color]
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[size=5][color=red][b]对于这个问题,大家又是怎么看待的?:bq2: [/b][/color][/size]

[font=黑体][color=#9932cc]那么今天的论题来了：你"弹"我"弹"☆【今日Topic】网恋—你能接受吗？


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[[i] 本帖最后由 我爱英语 于 2008-2-26 20:13 编辑 [/i]]

感情的事情很难说的啊.....在对的时间遇到对的人都应该珍惜吧:hxen4:

As the widely spread of the internet,we have to face it seriously.No matter how others think about internet love,I'll support free love.Parents are always afraid  that we fall in love with the strangers we met on the internet.I think they should not be afraid too much.We have our ideas ,and we can make out what is right or wrong.
If you belived in your intution,just do it.To me, friends are more important on the internet. : ):hxen8:

:hxen7: 对我来说,internet love 是不可能的.虽然我交了很多网友,但只是互相学习,帮助.除非是有见面,在现实中接触才有可能发展,不然,就只是朋友,不可能成为恋人了.大家又是怎么看这个问题的啊.哈哈.:hxen8:

Love is a gift

Actually my own romance is realized  via internet , but i wil try to give an objective opinion.
that is :    Love is a gift of life, while internet is just a tool to increase the chances for ordinary person to know more love candidates.

True ,  i am older than most of you here , so i would  not bother too much time to share my experiences, cause all you guys are more  handy in the net,
all i want to say is ,  
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
在遇到真命天子之前，上天也许会安排我们先错误地遇到其他一些人；所以当我们终于遇见心仪的人时，我们便能够心存感激。
SO,
Don’t try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to. :hxen4:
不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。

i have lots of friends involved in the on-line love.
some of them are successful to change virtual relationship into realistic. And they are as happy as the normal teenagers.
So I don't think it really matters of loving on line or in real life.
Internet love is a way of love.
Then what is the point to treat it as a trap or like a drug, to keep away from it.
That's ridiculous!

It's popular in big city .
Sometime it provide another way to know someone  you can't know in life .

There are a great movie about on-line love .you'v get a mail

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I have many friends, of couse some are on the internet. For me, an middleaged man, I have enough strengh to control myself. Sometimes I really have some special feeling about some special person. It is just like you and her have so much in common and so much shared interest that you have every reason to begin a love. But we should know what we have is what really matters. For our adults, with the same routine, maybe we need some change. But to college students, i think it is a waste of time and energy when you could have plenty of opportunities to make friends face to face.

in my  opinion; i think  internet-love is  not   ture~but  is  very   beateful.i have once  this  expeirence,but  in  end  fiad~so many  people  want  make  boy/girl  friend's  idea is good``but   rember  that  must'nt:hxen5:    lose  yourself`

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Your opinion is profound.Thanks a lot telling us how to be grateful through your experience.
If it's ture "God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful." I'll try to meet those wrong people,maybe one of them is the one I am finding.Sometimes we need to create opportunity for ourselves.:hxen18:

Faced with the topic of internet love , there are many different ideas.
In my opinion, love is unforeseen.
Real lover can appear in any circumance.

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Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
在遇到真命天子之前，上天也许会安排我们先错误地遇到其他一些人；所以当我们终于遇见心仪的人时，我们便能够心存感激。[/quote]

if you miss the best one who you have ever thought he/she is the wrong one
but you can't find a better one.
can you be grateful?
do you want to say that it 's the God's joke...
whether on-line love or realistic one, I wish all of you find the true one.
:hxen4: :hxen4:

I  like  the love  on the line  :hxen4:   
becouse  you can do what  you  want  to  do,  dream what   you  want   to dream , be  what  you  want  to be  :hxen5:

网络是不可回避的，不可能因为网络而拒绝网络，可能希望没网络的人远远少于希望有网络的人，所以自控最重要．

Internet-love is the same as realistic relationship

Internet-love is the same as realistic relationship
the exclusive difference between them is medium. You can meet love via net, then known each other by telephone ,or mail., and you find out there are common interests , finally you get along with each other in the realistic relationship…
In the same way, you meet love on a sodality, then leave the phone number with each other, and then repeating process starts coming on as on_line love. If you don’t get along with each other, parting should be inevitable.
Someone insist that beguilement exists in the net, while someone think that cheat also exists in the realistic relationship.
So, honesty, consideration and trustful are the elements of a happy love, whether on-line love or realistic relationship.
网恋其实和现实的爱情是一样的，他们之间唯一的不同是媒介。
你可以通过网络，然后通过电话或邮件彼此了解对方，你发现了你们之间有很多共同点，最后你们在现实生活中相处也很好…
同样，你可能在一场聚会中遇见了你的爱情，然后互留了电话，接着的步骤与网恋同样开始上演，如果你们不能相处很好，那么分手是必然的。
有人坚持网恋存在着欺骗，而也有人认为欺骗同样存在与现实的爱情中。
所以，要想有一段幸福的爱情，诚实、体谅和信任是最基本的，不管是网络还是现实恋爱也好。

As a two edged weapon,it`s a matter of how to harness or escape from it.

No matter on-line love or relationship in live life, every body is entitled to the right to seek  for his own lover. But please keep in mind that we must take responsibility not only for ourselves, but also for our loving partners.  
So, it is strongly suggested that keeping far-distance love between lovers in different cities is very difficult, as we have to take into account that whether we can work or live together in the same city in future.
Should both of the lovers on-live be able to deal with all the difficulties and pull off to do a job in the same city,  it is also available to have a try.

With  Internet  thriving  in  recent  years, the number  of  Intenet  users  including  college  students  is  rising  constantly. In  such  a  case, the  so-called  on-line  love  has  been  finding  its  way  among  students.
     To  my  knowledge, the  main  reason  why  that  phenomenon  occurs  in  the  quiet  campus  is  that  the  virtual
love  can  effectively  meet  the  youths'  heart  desire , meanwhile,  the  home-sick  feeling  might  as  well  be  relieved.
     Frankly  speaking,  I  don't  object  to  the  on-line  love  completely.  As  for  the  college  students  who  have  been
so  far  away  from  thei  familiar  hometowns,  it  may  comes  to  a  good  end  if  they  really  find  ther  ture  love  by
Internet.
    However,  more  experiences  warn  us  that  it's  not   a  wise   or  even  dangerous  to  contact  with  a total  stranger  on  line. Despite  the  bad  mood  that  sometimes  haunts  you,  the  virtual  love  is  not  the  sole  way
to  solute  problems,  something  else  works  likewise, such  as  watching  movies, doing  sports, even  sleeping.
    Essential  to  say,  parents  also  yearn  for  you,  worry  about  you,  care  about  you  at  any  minute   when  staying
at  home.  Thus,  it's  selfish  to  just  think  of  yourself.
    The  cardinal  task  at  present  is  to  focus  on  studying. The  true  company  of  your  lifetime  is  at  somewhere  else,perhaps  waiting  for  you. So  why  don't  you  calm  down  and  return  to  the real  world ,awaiting  the  approach  of  Cupid  one  day?

网恋只是认识的途径不一样而已`

我是一个网虫，从高一开始就接触网络到现在，也就是最开始的QQ。
我的朋友很多，各种各样的，全国各地的，包括海外的朋友，他们当中有网恋成功的，失败的当然居多，也有一些人只是把网络当成一个游乐场，这就要看自己接触的这些人是怎么对待这个网络的。
网络是我的第2生命，没有网络我很难苟活，几乎我除了睡觉就是上网，那么我的感情自然也都真实的流露在网络上，一直我都认为网络上有真诚在的，至少我付出了真诚，我应该也会得到真诚的回报。对于爱情来讲，我也相信。
当然，我被人耍过，被骗过，被抛弃过，我也离开过别人，这期间的复杂心酸都是过去，受了那么多次的打击之后，我依旧相信网恋，只是这个恋的程度和长短会主观去控制，对方要是玩玩而已的话，我会很快结束，对方要是跟我一样认真的话，那就是一段真实的现实感情了。

（我什么时候才可以用英语很熟练的把上面翻译出来哇:hxen4: ）

I think it was impossible.It was not true.But we live in the real world,so we should  realize it correcttly.