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【今日Topic】租女友回家过年，你有何看法?20080124

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租女友回家过年,不知大家是否听过相关的事例,当事人只是为了"安慰一个父母",这样的做法,是真孝还是假孝?[/size][/font][/color][/align][font=Arial][/font]
[font=Arial][/font][align=left][font=Arial][size=4][color=red]hired a “so-called” girlfriend back home for the coming new year, it’s the veritable filial piety for your parents?[/color][/size][/font][/align][font=Arial][/font]
[font=Arial][size=10][color=red][align=left][size=4][size=4][color=magenta][size=2][size=9pt]近日，重庆一名汪姓大学生为了[/size][size=9pt]“[/size][size=9pt]安慰一下父母[/size][size=9pt]”[/size][size=9pt]，以日租金[/size][size=9pt]80[/size][size=9pt]元为代价，租了一个[/size][size=9pt]“[/size][size=9pt]女友[/size][size=9pt]”[/size][size=9pt]一起回家过年。可买了车票后，刚一转身，[/size][size=9pt]“[/size][size=9pt]女友[/size][size=9pt]”[/size][size=9pt]却提着他装有手机和[/size][size=9pt]500[/size][size=9pt]多元现金的包[/size][size=9pt]“[/size][size=9pt]失踪[/size][size=9pt]”[/size][size=9pt]了，他顿知受骗，只得号啕大哭，引来数百市民围观。[/size][size=9pt] [/size][size=9pt]　　[/size][/size][size=2][size=9pt]如此[/size][size=9pt]“[/size][size=9pt]租女友[/size][size=9pt]”[/size][size=9pt]真不可思议，可随着春节的临近，此等怪事竟然会愈演愈烈。据报载，仅[/size][size=9pt]Google[/size][size=9pt]搜索引擎上关于[/size][size=9pt]“[/size][size=9pt]租女友[/size][size=9pt]”[/size][size=9pt]和[/size][size=9pt]“[/size][size=9pt]租男友[/size][size=9pt]”[/size][size=9pt]的网页就达[/size][size=9pt]520[/size][/size][/color][size=9pt][size=2][color=magenta]余万项，有些地方的一些婚介机构也开出了出租男女朋友的服务。

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[/color][/size][/size][/size][/size][size=9pt][color=#000000][size=4][color=red]专家观点：租友要慎之又慎[/color] [/size][/color][/size][/align][align=left][color=#000000][size=4][size=9pt][/size][/size][/color][/align][align=left][size=4][color=magenta][size=9pt]   [/size][size=9pt]爱情是神圣的，应该建立在彼此双方互相尊重和感情的基础上。然而当“被租方”看在金钱的分上而把爱情当作一项任务来完成的时候，就完全是把爱情作为盈利的手段和一种商业行为，是对爱情的亵渎。此外，“租友”回家还可能带来不良后果，比如闪婚或者助长情感游戏，甚至影响到将来的人生幸福。 [/size][/color][/size][/align][align=left][color=#000000][size=4][color=magenta][size=9pt]   [/size][/color][size=9pt][color=magenta]因此，对“租友”要慎之又慎。[/color]
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[[i] 本帖最后由 我爱英语 于 2008-2-17 20:18 编辑 [/i]]

safa先再说~

I don't think it is a good idea that hired a “so-called” girlfriend back home for the coming new year.  None parents would  thank you for your considerable in that way. what's more, it is  not safe that go home together with a stranger. It is said  that some one has been cheated.

英文就那么多了,下面是中文.
我不赞成这种做法.
父母希望在外打拼的子女有个伴侣,并不仅仅是想满足自己能抱孙子的愿望,更重要的是希望自己的孩子能有能够相互支持相互依靠的伙伴.这样父母才会更放心.租的情人的出发点也许是好的,但这样就更辜负了父母的心思.而且,真假情侣,以家长的阅览会真的分辨不出?!倘若你能和一个完全陌生的人,做出情侣间的亲密,哼哼,你这个人可能也不咋滴.再说,这种做法根本就不安全!!!!

I don't  agree  this ways .because many parents hope his's child can really  felicity ,not facies look like felicity~~~~

I don't think this idea is veritable filial for pearants .Ones they know the fact ,they will be harm.

[[i] 本帖最后由 Joyce 于 2008-1-25 09:41 编辑 [/i]]

[font=Arial][size=4][color=black]I have no word about the idea of hiring[/color][/size][/font][font=Arial][size=4][color=black] a “so-called” girlfriend back home for the coming new year.Althought It appeared at past,It is also a real big problem when a lot of singles want to hire one.Cheat has became a habit of the young.How horrible![/color][/size][/font]

Actually that's a dilemma for the single persons to choose!!!!!!!!! anyway its ocurance must have the reasons: just see how you deal with it in the proper way!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I dont support this kind of behaviour. Three reasons can be identified in my point of view. Firstly, young people should be more honest and responsible with their parents, instead of deceiving them with rented partners. Secondly,  trusting a person solely on the basis of an advertisement could also be dangerous. Thirdly, it may exert a misunderstanding about relationship among the public, leading people to think that they can buy their way to happiness .

I don't really agree with this, even hate this behaviour. there is just no girlfriend, not other things.
Hired a girlfriend that is foolish thing. if that just give your parents a surprise, you are really a stupid. That's is right, if your parents know you have a girlfriend, they would be so happy.

And now the guy is a undergraduate, who should study first. For chasing fashion, then lost more.

If someone hired a nice moral girlfriend,it is ok. if the bad girl...Oh, no....you should know what happen, likes what thread starter said. It is terrible.

I think this behaviour is immorality, they will hurt their parents once they know the truth, I believe each  parent of us expect we have the sincere love and happy marriage, therefore if you have decided to introduce your girlfriend or boyfriend to your parents you should do it serious-minded,don't cheat them.

We need analyze this event from different side.If a young man 's parents expect a girl who is their son's girl friend to come back home with son, I think this event not wrong.If only for satisfy his amour-propre,this action is unmoral.So keeping mental health is important.
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台目这东西一长就会出现拉夫:hxen5:

Agree or not agree ?That is a problem....

It is not so suprise when i here about it ,this is a world of wanders ,this is a world where anything can happen .When something like that happened we should learn to analyse base on the backgroud it happend  .
That is so much for this time ,yes or no need time and wisdom!

sometimes  this way is a best way  for  their  parents  if  their parents very want  to meet  his girlfriend

I dont think it's a  good idea. Incase , your parents know the truth, how will they think about it. They will feel very sad about your cheating. That's the problem of  being a man.
Anther way, to hire a so-called girlfriend will cost a great fortune. So, consider the money and the moral, we should forbid this kind of things.

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I think maybe it's another way of loving their parents. Everything has it's reasons.The end maybe is happiness of the family or harm from the son and the hired girlfriend. the most important is the starting point

Yeah.~ This  behaviour   is  understandable .         It  is   not  wrong .   I  am  not  against  it .

I  think  the  so-called  boyfriend /  girlfriend  bad  better  be  her/his  good  friend .  It  is  the bottom  line!!  He  should  be  careful and cautious .   The  so-called  person should   not   keep  eye  on  his /her  money  or  other  things .

They   can  have  the deal  to  let  the  parents  have  a  good  time  like the Spring  Festival .

After  that  if  they  find some special  feeling  between  them ,  maybe  really   they  will  become  lovers !!!  ~~~:hxen18:

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However, I agree with this.Because their heart are honest and helpful.

well-meant fiction

In some filed,i insist on hiring girlfriend.I   have  looked  everyone's post,in my opinion,if you are a undergratuate and you don't want to waste your time on love,and your parents want you can take one back home,you can rent a so-called girlfriend back home,i think it is a well-meant fiction,i agree with it.what's more,you can also hire a girl friend       who is your classmate or schoolmate,not always a stranger.Maybe you are want to be couple,but shy to say  ,it is a chance.Hiring a girlfriend like one night stand,the most important thing is getting together  easy,falling apart easy.lol